<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[Maddy's Memorial Page]]></title><description><![CDATA[We Love Maddy]]></description><link>https://www.welovemaddy.com/blog</link><generator>RSS for Node</generator><lastBuildDate>Thu, 15 Oct 2026 19:44:02 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://www.welovemaddy.com/blog-feed.xml" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><item><title><![CDATA[I Miss Your Laugh, Your Presence, Your Energy]]></title><description><![CDATA[Alison Ash, June 2026 I miss your laugh, your presence. your energy- all the little things that nobody else could ever Replicate. Losing you changed Our family Forever. I wish you could see how loved you are. You are remembered constantly, spoken about often, and carried in our Hearts every single day. You were deeply loved, deeply missed,and impossible to Replace. Not a day goes by that I don't think about you in some way- a Memory, a laugh, a Random Moment that brings you back. I hope...]]></description><link>https://www.welovemaddy.com/post/i-miss-your-laugh-your-presence-your-energy</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a26d7f37af0f73356984caa</guid><pubDate>Mon, 08 Jun 2026 14:56:37 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>Jordana Ash</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[SpaceX launch.2]]></title><description><![CDATA[Jordana Ash posted December 25, 2021  Here's a video from the hilltop where the launch took place. It gives a little flavor of the experience we all had. We love you, Maddy. Forever.]]></description><link>https://www.welovemaddy.com/post/spacex-launch-2</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69a124409d34acb7c4334fe2</guid><pubDate>Fri, 27 Feb 2026 04:58:31 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="http://video.wixstatic.com/video/eb5ce0_78c4350577f54cf087a1e82ae274b5da/144p/mp4/file.mp4" length="0" type="video"/><dc:creator>Jordana Ash</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Honoring Maddy - The 2025 Service Project]]></title><description><![CDATA[Oliver Lignell posted on Sep 11, 2025 Jordana and I headed north on Broadway early Saturday morning on August 16th to join Junior Ranger staff and community volunteers for our 2025 service project to honor Maddy. We knew some of Maddy’s and our friends would be there, but we weren’t sure how many people would actually show up. And, even though we generally knew the area we would be working in and what we would be doing, we didn’t know the specifics. Jordana and Oliver getting oriented Getting...]]></description><link>https://www.welovemaddy.com/post/honoring-maddy-the-2025-service-project-1</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69a12143aac6e7cda9157c23</guid><pubDate>Fri, 27 Feb 2026 04:44:56 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/eb5ce0_5c2e604ae24c49de8dc7647f8ece276e~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Jordana Ash</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[all I knew, all I didn’t: A Remembrance (from Jordana) March 31, 2025]]></title><description><![CDATA[Oliver Lignell posted on Jun 23, 2025 But I didn’t know you had a top brand blender. For fruit smoothies or maybe, even, margaritas? For company in your apartment, sweet and luscious? Or just yourself, to make it through the loneliness of lockdown? I didn’t know about your climbing gym membership Or your two pairs of climbing shoes, your harness, and all that rope. I didn’t know you had professionally framed your photos from those trips; Catalina, Yosemite, the Pinnacles. Or had a guidebook...]]></description><link>https://www.welovemaddy.com/post/all-i-knew-all-i-didn-t-a-remembrance-from-jordana-march-31-2025</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69a1210aaac6e7cda9157bb6</guid><pubDate>Fri, 27 Feb 2026 04:43:56 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>Jordana Ash</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Another Year (Jordana 2025)]]></title><description><![CDATA[Oliver Lignell posted on Jun 23, 2025 Another year? How can this possibly be? How can Maddy’s death, the experience that tore at the fabric of our family, that clawed at our reality and tested the limits of our suffering have happened 4 years ago, in the early dawning hours of a new day that was supposed to be shaped by hope and health? How is it that time is warped in such a way that 4 endless years, 1,460 excruciating days of sorrow have passed while equally, this rending is as real as if...]]></description><link>https://www.welovemaddy.com/post/another-year-jordana-2025</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69a120effa78e209eb8a1d22</guid><pubDate>Fri, 27 Feb 2026 04:43:31 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>Jordana Ash</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[APA Conference and Another Ripple]]></title><description><![CDATA[Oliver Lignell posted on May 28, 2025 One of the amazing connections and opportunities to share Maddy’s life and what we learned came out of the Convening held in July 2024. Dr. Igor Galynker, one of the experts who presented his theory of the Narrative Crisis Model and Suicide Crisis Syndrome, asked if I would consider presenting at the 2025 American Psychiatric Association conference in Los Angeles in May 2025. He had been developing a proposal for a unique session with fathers in mind and...]]></description><link>https://www.welovemaddy.com/post/apa-conference-and-another-ripple-1</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69a120d43a2716aeb21644b6</guid><pubDate>Fri, 27 Feb 2026 04:43:02 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/eb5ce0_6d4693b6fe9848c6a470f410422c49c4~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Jordana Ash</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[In your Honor]]></title><description><![CDATA[muffinhaynes410 posted on May 28, 2025 It's with a Heavy Heart I write this Today but also a smile and Laughter. I miss you and Love you so much. I hope I am not reaping Myself, Which I do often I Do Remember the Summer that you and Your Sister'z would come To Grandma"s And all the Sleeping Bag's in the Back Room on the floor never to be folded up until you guys left. I also Remember when you showed up at Grandma's with your Motorcycle and almost rode it into the front door. Always leaving...]]></description><link>https://www.welovemaddy.com/post/in-your-honor-1</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69a120a8aac6e7cda9157ae7</guid><pubDate>Fri, 27 Feb 2026 04:42:17 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/eb5ce0_4c43c502217a45178a6ad9e73756f90d~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_768,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Jordana Ash</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Issue Paper from Convening]]></title><description><![CDATA[Oliver Lignell posted on Jun 02, 2025 We're humbled to finally be sharing with you the report put together by Healthier Colorado after the convening we had last year, in honor of Maddy. The report, which you can access here: Issue Paper on Acute Suicidality: An Urgent Need for Systemic Change, sheds light on the rapid onset of sudden suicide crises and gives recommendations for things people can do right now to better anticipate and respond to these critical events. You know what a labor of...]]></description><link>https://www.welovemaddy.com/post/issue-paper-from-convening</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69a120843a2716aeb2164413</guid><pubDate>Fri, 27 Feb 2026 04:41:41 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>Jordana Ash</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[A Poem from Hanna]]></title><description><![CDATA[Oliver Lignell posted on Apr 28, 2024 As I reflect on our gathering last August, I recall the following thoughts that Hanna shared below about her beloved brother, Maddy. I love my brother every time he determinedly stayed up to gently wiggle his toes across to my side of the bed, to enrage his big sister in the exact right way And I love my brother years later when we slept in the same bed, this time divided by a body pillow, when I flew to LA after our brilliant grandma Sunny passed away I...]]></description><link>https://www.welovemaddy.com/post/a-poem-from-hanna-1</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69a120709d34acb7c4334752</guid><pubDate>Fri, 27 Feb 2026 04:41:22 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>Jordana Ash</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Maddy's words: 11:50 pm 11/25/2018 Cuesta Ridge]]></title><description><![CDATA[Jordana Ash posted on Jun 02, 2024 Hot feet in heavy boots, Adhering to a path with no destination in mind Crumbling treacherous footing yet eyes drawn to the ocean. Up and up and up Above the coast and hills, Peace comes, illuminated by the distant bright mirror of the water. Sandy coasts bend into the soft, heavy ocean air. The photos are of Cuesta Ridge, 2017. Photo cred to Gina Ghiglieri, who loves Maddy, too. ------------------------------------------------------Comments-----------------...]]></description><link>https://www.welovemaddy.com/post/maddy-s-words-11-50-pm-11-25-2018-cuesta-ridge</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69a120519d34acb7c4334714</guid><pubDate>Fri, 27 Feb 2026 04:40:51 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/eb5ce0_ab8c23fb23734dcda6a66e813aa4da8d~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Jordana Ash</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Remembering Maddy]]></title><description><![CDATA[Victoria Tonikian posted on Nov 03, 2024 Maddy and my path in life only crossed for a brief few months many years ago but the impact he made on me lives in my heart forever. He was a bright light and someone that showed me kindness, courage and bravery in a time when I so desperately needed it. I’m grateful for the time we spent sharing our love of sour beers, climbing, watching movies, and exploring Montana de Oro. This year, I was grateful to honor him on my Dia de los Muertos ofrenda which...]]></description><link>https://www.welovemaddy.com/post/remembering-maddy-1</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69a1202ffa78e209eb8a1b94</guid><pubDate>Fri, 27 Feb 2026 04:40:15 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/eb5ce0_267dfce62ce94b6a8e0f27d9a4ad2fd8~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Jordana Ash</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Honoring Maddy]]></title><description><![CDATA[muffinhaynes410 posted on Jun 14, 2024 It's with a Heavy Heart I write this Today but also a smile and Laughter. I miss you and Love you so much. I hope I am not reaping Myself, Which I do often I Do Remember the Summer that you and Your Sister'z would come To Grandma"s And all the Sleeping Bag's in the Back Room on the floor never to be folded up until you guys left. I also Remember when you showed up at Grandma's with your Motorcycle and almost rode it into the front door. Always leaving...]]></description><link>https://www.welovemaddy.com/post/honoring-maddy</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69a1200f9d34acb7c4334681</guid><pubDate>Fri, 27 Feb 2026 04:39:44 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/eb5ce0_a2420d7ef17c4047a83968ae90349998~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_768,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Jordana Ash</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[A Fathers Perspective - April 2024]]></title><description><![CDATA[Oliver Lignell posted on Apr 28, 2024 Today, I sit in the family condo that Maddy loved so much. It's in the mountains up near the continental divide. It's snowing hard. I'm reminded of the last time Jordana and I were up here with him. We had rented cross country skis and skied down by Lake Dillon as a family and then, later, Maddy and I went out and skied in the backcountry behind our condo. Neither of us were very good cross-country skiers, but we had so much fun together. We talked about...]]></description><link>https://www.welovemaddy.com/post/a-fathers-perspective-april-2024</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69a11fe7fa78e209eb8a1af5</guid><pubDate>Fri, 27 Feb 2026 04:39:06 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>Jordana Ash</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Farewell]]></title><description><![CDATA[donlin.ariel posted on Oct 27, 2023 I knew Maddy only briefly during the summer of 2020 in LA. He was kind and genuine and thoughtful and fun to be around. I've been thinking about him lately and was deeply saddened to learn of his passing when I looked him up to try to reconnect. I wish I'd had a chance to know him better and build community together. I'll carry what I did know of Maddy in my heart. I don't have pictures or anything to share other than some fond memories and a missed...]]></description><link>https://www.welovemaddy.com/post/farewell</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69a11fbe3a2716aeb216423f</guid><pubDate>Fri, 27 Feb 2026 04:38:47 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>Jordana Ash</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[A junior ranger legacy]]></title><description><![CDATA[Barnaby Richards posted on May 08, 2024 I just wanted to comment and let you know that I find it a great way to honor Maddy by supporting the junior ranger program. Both my daughter and now son have benefitted from the program. Finding this site will certainly encourage me to discuss mental health awareness with my kids and to think of the enduring mark that Maddys legacy has left. ------------------------------------------------------Comments--------------------------------------------------...]]></description><link>https://www.welovemaddy.com/post/a-junior-ranger-legacy</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69a11fa49d34acb7c4334598</guid><pubDate>Fri, 27 Feb 2026 04:38:03 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>Jordana Ash</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Happy Birthday, Maddy!]]></title><description><![CDATA[Madeleine Rauhe posted on Nov 28, 2023 You were the best gift giver. You always knew exactly what would make me smile and that it didn't have to be extravagant or expensive, but an acorn you found on your walk or the lightsaber earrings I still wear every May the 4th. To make this super friendship sappy, the best gift ever was when we got to hang out. The gift of knowing you outweighs it all. I'll be either hiking or skiing this weekend and I'll be thinking of you the whole time. Thanks so...]]></description><link>https://www.welovemaddy.com/post/happy-birthday-maddy-1</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69a11f8c9d34acb7c4334561</guid><pubDate>Fri, 27 Feb 2026 04:37:40 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>Jordana Ash</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Happy Birthday!!!]]></title><description><![CDATA[muffinhaynes410 posted on Nov 28, 2023 You made the World better just by being in it. You lit up a room just by walking though the door. You still Brighten our lives day after day. YOU'RE One of those people &#38; today is one of those times When We need to be reminded again what a Gift And Blessing you are &#38; how much You are Loved and Missed Happy Birthday Nephew Love, Aunt Alli]]></description><link>https://www.welovemaddy.com/post/happy-birthday-1</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69a11f72aac6e7cda9157858</guid><pubDate>Fri, 27 Feb 2026 04:37:08 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>Jordana Ash</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[For my soulmate]]></title><description><![CDATA[hanna.lig posted on May 15, 2023 Just a quick note from me today. I wanted for a while to integrate Maddy's name into mine, and the timing of everything ended up corresponding with today (I got my final letter on Saturday) so I thought I would post my name change today. The other photo is of the breakfast I had the morning. A Maddy classic of chocolate chips heated up inside a croissant. Love you. ------------------------------------------------------Comments----------------------------------...]]></description><link>https://www.welovemaddy.com/post/for-my-soulmate</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69a11f5c9d34acb7c4334505</guid><pubDate>Fri, 27 Feb 2026 04:36:47 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/eb5ce0_b69376cd4e0b45fd9950153fc6ad4f77~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_1000,h_938,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Jordana Ash</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Gathering for Maddy 2023]]></title><description><![CDATA[Jordana Ash posted on Sep 10, 2023 More to come but I wanted to share some pictures of the Gathering for Maddy from this year. It was an extraordinary event as we gathering under the pavilion at Viele Lake and reflected on our love and loss of Maddy. It mattered so much to us to come together like this and it really feels like it's equally important to those of you who come, that you also need a place to collectively share our thoughts and feelings about Maddy. Take a look:]]></description><link>https://www.welovemaddy.com/post/gathering-for-maddy-2023</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69a11f3aaac6e7cda91577ee</guid><pubDate>Fri, 27 Feb 2026 04:36:12 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/eb5ce0_3771fb4f623a4c8e889b0383d7e9e040~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Jordana Ash</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Celebrating you on Yahzeit]]></title><description><![CDATA[muffinhaynes410 posted on May 25, 2023 Missing you, my dear nephew. You are in my thoughts and my prayers each and every day. The meaning of the amethyst tree is peace and unification which is so near and dear to your heart. Love you so much, Aunt Alli.]]></description><link>https://www.welovemaddy.com/post/celebrating-you-on-yahzeit</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69a11f11aac6e7cda9157796</guid><pubDate>Fri, 27 Feb 2026 04:35:30 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/eb5ce0_ce34d0549d1d4accbea28c45adf852b1~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Jordana Ash</dc:creator></item></channel></rss>